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Members Stereotypes You Will Encounter As A CamGirl

Members Stereotypes

Members Stereotypes is something I want to write about today. I don’t intend to be mean or judgemental. As I learned in my psychology class…. the definition of a stereotype is any commonly known public belief about a certain social group or a type of individual. Stereotypes are often confused with prejudices, because, like prejudices, a stereotype is based on a prior assumption. Stereotypes are often created about people of specific cultures or races.  In our case .. members that are found in a cam girl’s chat room.

Stereotypes are not just centered on different races and backgrounds, however. Gender stereotypes also exist. For example, if you say that men are better than women, you’re stereotyping all men and all women. If you say that all women like to cook, you are stereotyping women.

In my case, I decided to write about few types of “members” that  I noticed over the years. I’ve been a cam girl for over 7 years and  I got to meet hundreds.. thousands of people.. members.. fans .. name them as you see fit.  And sad or not, all fall into a category or another.  I want to mention that I was mostly online on sites based on free chat and tips…

The needy ones.

This is the guy who is always needy and emotionally manipulative.  From my experience, it all starts with being “the nice guy “who is gonna save you from the wolfs.  They will tip you and hang in your chat room every day/  night. Be your number 1 fan. And then they just get very needy if you don’t respond to them immediately or if you just give vague answers. They will be like .. “what was that about.. what does that mean “… They want your full and constant attention even tho you have a lot of other people to deal with. Will message you every 5 seconds and just won’t give you any time for anything else but him.  This is not necessarily a bad type, you might like to give your full attention to just one person.

The demander.

As the word itself says.. is a person who likes to demand. He will just ask for everything for the smallest amount of tokens. Or, tip you an awful lot or go private but you won’t have time to show one thing because he jumps next to another. Will be like .. take off your bra.. you did not even take it off yet but here comes next request .. get all naked  .. get that toy and suck it .. etc.

The director.

Well, this one applies to the models who do shows for tips on websites like MFC  or Chaturbate, Camplace .. etc. So you reached your goal for whatever show you decided to put on for your room. You already have a plan going on in your mind. How to start, what to do and how to end the show. You try to make it so it pleases most members. And  bam .. you get a lot of PM’s or messages in free chat from this one guy.. who  most times do not even pay..( actually.. from my experience never pay)  telling you what to do next ..  Yah babe now show us that ass of yours, when  you are clearly busy doing a totally different thing.  He won’t stop until you either do what he says or just kick him out of the room.

Basic members.

While I had my luck and some of the basic members actually did buy tokens for me and became huge fans and part of my gang. Most basic members are same. Will come to your room be nice and polite. Compliment you 3 times :D. Funny story on that…

One time I was so bored and I had this one good friend of my hanging around in my room. We started to play a drinking/tipping game. For every guest/ basic member who gives 3 compliments then an insult. I would take a shot of vodka and my friend would tip 100 tokens. .. Let’s just say in a couple of hours  I was drunk :D.  So back to our stuff. The basic will compliment you 3 times, and if he is ignored will instantly start to insult you. Answer me you wh**e… You are so ugly.. why are you on cam? And things like that. It has nothing to do with you.. is just a frustrated guy who has nothing to do with his time.

The knight in shining armor.

They are the one who always will message you things like: “You are so beautiful…  You should not do this ..Why are you here? You are so much better than this ..You are so smart, should quit this job “. etc..  They will act like are there to save you from this horrible.. horrible life you have even tho they have never once asked how you doing or anything. Just based on the fact that they saw you one time.  From my experience, the real “knight in shining armor” will just take you private for as long as he can just to give you time to rest. Or, just to chat like two normal people. Ask about your day and so one. Will never ever say you are better than this instead, will spend as much as he can to make your time online worth it and at the end to make you feel like you had the most amazing day at work.

 

I think i’ll just stop here for now and maybe , another day, write another article to continue this one .  If you have any thoughts on this, leave me a comment below.

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