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How to act when u make someone cry on cam

How to act when u make someone cry on cam This is one of the hardest things I have ever had to write about. What…

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How to act when u make someone cry on cam

This is one of the hardest things I have ever had to write about. What do you do when you make a girl cry on cam. I can’t help but think that if it had been my wife on camera and I made her cry, the very next second I would be packing my bags and head straight for the moon…hell hath no fury as a woman scorned, right?

I’m not afraid of many things in life, but fuck me if I don’t feel ice running in my veins the second I see her face resting on her palms and hear the first sob. The next thing could be anything from raging screams to a knife in my back in a very calm manner…you can never know. It all comes down to how men and women tend to be built (mind you, not a rule per say but it generally is how things work). Women tend to be more loving and impulsive, emotionally driven while men take a more narrow, cold and calculated approach.

Anyway, back to the subject at hand, you are now on the spot…the poor girl is crying her eyes out in front of you. The first thing you need to do is regroup and understand what on earth you did to disappoint or upset her. Somehow you didn’t fit in with what she was expecting of you, the way she saw things evolving in your interaction was not the way things happened. Keep in mind, that a woman’s first move in a situation as such is to stop talking to you…she is aware that her words have sway over you.

Even so, you managed to fuck up, now it’s damage control time…

Tell her that you used the wrong words to express yourself, you didn’t mean to hurt her. Very important! I’m not telling you to lie to her or just feed her lines. You need to understand what you said wrong and explain what you really wanted to say. If you actually did fuck up and you are at fault, be a damn man and admit it. Apologize and tell her you didn’t mean to make her cry.

As to finding what made her cry, that could be tricky. If she is in the aforementioned mood of giving you the silent treatment sometimes you just have to let her simmer down, regroup and come back at a better time. Presents never hurt, in this case since you can’t actually hug her or offer your shoulder for the tears is shedding…use the tools you have at your disposal.

Look at what the site you’re currently using is offering (lots of them have tips dressed up as emotes, flowers, chocolate etc…stuff that can convey a bit more of a message). Make sure you do this with some sweet words to go along, make her understand that you’re not “buying” her off…that it’s just a heartfelt gift; closest you can get to actually send her flowers.

What you say and the meaning it conveys is important!

I can’t stress enough how important it is. You better have the inspiration of the immortal Bard then and there. Next thing is trying to make her understand you won’t be doing whatever it is that you did again, that it was a mistake. Write it on your damn forehead if you need to remind yourself in the morning because in video chat some finer points of the human interactions can’t be had (body language doesn’t get the message across as good due to the actual lack of touch). So that means you need to be extra gentle and express it just through your words.

Now I know what you’ll say…we’re men, we’re not built like that. I’m built to be an ass kicking machine, tough as nails and rugged. Well, the thing is that you need to understand when the time is right for that side of you and when you should actually be nice and emotional. No one is saying to be all dreamy and romantic while around your drinking buddies…but damn it, when you’re with a woman you should know when to bring it on. Hugs, kisses, tips…never forget reminding her what she means for you. Show it and don’t be ashamed to let her see your more emotional side. Remember…” everything is gonna’ be alright”.

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